• Han Butler

5 Things To Do To Be A Powerful Fucking Woman


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Do you want to know what one of my goals are in life? To make you realise that you're a bad-ass female who is capable of anything she puts her mind to. The 'How?' all boils down to one secret - being yourself. If you're being yourself every single day, then you'll always be living your best life. Unfortunately, I'm not naive to the fact that it's difficult for a lot of us to be unapologetically ourselves, but it's possible and I'm going to help you. We're going to start off with the basic 5 steps.


5 THINGS TO DO TO BE A POWERFUL FUCKING WOMAN


1. Own Your Style!


Wear what you love and love what you wear. Don't wear something just because everyone else is or because you're afraid to stand out. Style is defined by you, not a magazine or an Instagram model or the popular girls at school - YOU!


If you want to dye your hair blue - do it. If you want to cover yourself in tattoos - do it. There's no right or wrong when it comes to your style and body, because it's exactly that - yours.


2. Do what you love!


Are you killing yourself for a job that would replace you within a week if you dropped dead? Stop. What do you love? What are you passionate about? Do that.


Ignore the people that tell you your dreams aren't practical. They're the people that played life safe instead of taking a risk and going after what they really wanted. Doing something you hate to pay bills every day until you die - is that really what you want your life to be like? You don't get a do-over in life, so remember - better an oops than a what if!


3. Don't let yourself be silenced!


Sometimes people think that because you're a woman, your opinion doesn't matter, but that's bullshit because your opinion matter just as much as the next person. Don't be made to feel like you shouldn't speak your mind because you're a woman or because you have an "unpopular" opinion. Never let anyone silence you. Yes you're a woman, but you're a woman who has shit to say and that's exactly what you're going to do.


I have to mention though, that as vital as it is that you don't let yourself be silenced by others, it's also vital that you don't silence someone else.


4. Support other women!


I'm not saying you have to like every single woman just because they're a woman, but there's enough racists, sexists and homophobic's out there inflicting misery - you don't need to add to the hatred. I don't know about you but I'm sick and tired of seeing body shaming comments and jealousy fuelled insults.


How can we, as women, expect equality and respect when we can't even give it to each other? There's a huge difference between standing up for what you believe in and just out-right insulting someone when they don't deserve to be insulted. So if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. We need to act as one instead of being divided by comment sections.


5. Be you!


Would you want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't being their true selves? Probably not. Well the longest relationship you'll ever have in your life is the one with yourself. So be true, be you, for you. Always.


I will never get bored of talking about strong, fierce, and independent women!


Love, Han


xo



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